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Sunday, March 21, 2010
因为神赐给我们不是胆怯的心,乃是刚强、仁爱、谨守的心。
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我知道你看得到这一篇文章。
所以,这一篇东西,是写给你看的,不要怀疑。
曾经你对爱情抱着太美好的憧憬,我相信是因为你有着一颗纯真和炽热的心。
然而,世界上有太多太多的事情时轮不到我们去控制的,
也不是所有事情我们都懂得要如何去面对。
我不会叫你学着去放手,因为彼此都还不够成熟,慌乱中做出的决定只会让你们后悔一辈子。
所以你要冷静。
我不确定你会不会祷告,但是你可以试试看。
你需要的是一个温暖厚实可靠的肩膀,谁说男人就不需要一个可以哭泣的肩膀?
你需要的是很多,很多,很多的爱。
一个愿意聆听你诉说的人。
一个愿意在你伤心难过时安慰你的人。
祂就站在你的心门外,等你开门把祂迎接进来。
我不懂得如何安慰人,因为我没有这方面的经验。
我也不知道要怎样开导你,因为我常常是被人开导的那一个。
我只能够以朋友的身份,一直一直地为你祷告。
加油,叶小帅。
期待着你蜕变,成为一个有担当的男人的一天。

Saturday, March 13, 2010
小时后我曾经天真地以为,只要我保持一颗赤子之心,大人的世界我依然能够适应得很好。
原来不是那么一回事。
大人的世界,怎么那么奇怪?一件事情竟然可以有那么多不同的版本,做错事的人可以理直气壮的恶人先告状。多么弯曲乖谬的世代。

有时候,很多事情不是单纯的一件事情。
就像九把刀说的,人生并没有所谓的意外,每一件事情的发生都有它的理由,环环相扣。
很多发生在自己身上的事情,我相信是为了让我变得更坚强更勇敢面对未来而发生的吧。

我妈说,如果我会用“我忍你”这三个字,证明了我自己其实没有真正放下这件事情。
想想一下,好象还蛮有道理的。
如果我真的已经放下了,根本就不用忍啊。

嗯嗯。这个我还要学。

人是一种很奇怪的动物,明明一样都是人,但是每个人的思想行为却全然不同。
所以要学着让步,容忍,接受,了解,然后习惯。

但是有些人就是没办法忍受,要我怎么办!!
我有勇气拒绝你不合理的要求,就有勇气接受你的不满。
你都没有搞清楚状况就来跟我闹脾气,你要我怎样嘛??
又不是我故意为难你,是当时的状况下我唯一能做的决定,你事情都没搞清楚就说我故意不给你吃饭,一个星期前的事还要气到现在,还说对我绝望,拜托,应该感到绝望的人是我吧。。。。

我原谅你,因为你不知道自己在做什么。
我会很用力很用力的,让自己努力忘掉这件事情。
毕竟记仇不是我的长项,善忘和原谅才是。

人生还有那么长远,如果你不学会反省自己,只会凡事推卸责任,你的人生不会很长。
如果你长那么大了还没有这份觉悟,我只替你感到可惜。

那份属于你所谓的你自己的正义,拿回去,我不屑一顾。

属于我的,我会自己捍卫,你休想碰。

Monday, March 8, 2010

SPRING FEST THIS YEAR WAS A HUGE SUCCESS!!

Thanks for all who contributed, in a way or another. Without all of you guys this event would not be as wonderful as it is. You guys really rock la!!

6.30 pm to 8..30 pm was some kind of expo time, there are some booths in front of dewan besar with all de details of chinese culture and bla bla bla. It was kinda boring in the beginning as all the participants were so lazy to wlak around and just sit on the ground chatting.

so, we decided to bring out or mascot of the event--财神爷 aka God of Fortune~ of course, with his lil helper Mr tiger..

It was definitely a right decision because once the crowd saw them, all gone crazy and all came together to get angpao from them!!


They really saved the expo, cant imagine whats gonna happen without them.


we also have tea master, traditional tea culture as presented by ah loke!


The big event starts at 8.30pm, at first we were quite worried that the attendance wont be as good as we expected but thank god everyrthing turn out great and the dewan besar was packed with people!! Praise to the Lord!!

It all ran well and we were really grateful for the success. Really appreciate all the help from all committees, AJK and the crew, it wouldnt have been successful without u all!!


Here's some of the pictures i stole from my friend. Thanks for being an awesome photographer, Jared, and thanks for willing to lend us your camera, JJ!!!


Victor and Patricia, awesome emcee =)


from nothing become a very pro team, UTeM 24 season drums!! you guys made us and made yourself proud!!!

Chinese Traditional Fan dance. Very very nice and energetic, love it!


The artists who came that night. They din ask for much pay as they know its pretty hard for us to organize this chinese event in a local Uni.
From left : Jeffrey庄惟翔,mr Amir ( pegawai kesenian dan kebudayaan, HEPA),Jym庄靖翼,Adrian陈凯旋。

Heard that Adrian was pretty nervous before he enters the hall. Did something really cute but kinda gave a shock to my friend outside the hall. Hahaha you go Adrian!! Hope to see more of your performance in future k~

I'm glad that the last minute decision of changing him to dress up as tiger was a really smart choice. He must be the most hyperactive tiger ever, I swear.


Threesome =)

Main committee (oh jia qi wasnt around, too bad~) with the mascots!!

That marks the end of the event. Although some of the programmes during expo ran out of schedule but thank God we managed to solve them without creating much havoc.

Am I looking forward for next year's event? Sure I am, but not with those irresponsible people and those who always make themself looks pro but in the end couldnt do a thing.